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Coffee. 🤤
270 Days
Til I become Mrs. Daddy. 😂😂
Our Current Structure
* I wake her up almost every morning. She gets snoozes if she asks. (She always asks)
* When she sleeps away, I pick her panties from what she has given me as a selection the night before. When she sleeps with me, I reach into her bag and pick one.
* Every morning she wakes elsewhere, I get devotional pics of her wearing the panties I’ve chosen for her that day.
* When she sleeps with me, I pack her morning bowl.
*When she sleeps with me, I pack her food to take to work.
* When she gets morning wake up calls, the final call ends with me telling her, “boots on the ground little soldier”.
* When she spends the night, we share a cigarette before we part to head to work.
* She gets medicine reminders at 9am and 9pm every day. They are always, “Take your medicine little girl.”, to which her response is always, “Thank you Daddy.”
* Whenever we leave each other I text her emojis within minutes to remind her that though she has gone, she is still being thought of.
* In eating food three times daily, she reports her food intake with me throughout the day.
* Each day she hits all the beats in her structure, she earns a sticker at the end of the day.
JD
The more I think about our age gap, the wetter I get.
- Your salt and pepper beard gets me dripping the instant it crosses my mind.
- I love to listen to you talk about your life.
- I love when you fall asleep super early and be Couch Daddy cause you’re an old man.
- I LOVE your body that you work so hard to keep delicious.
- I love your sexy fucking bald head.
- I love when you call me little girl and let me suck your thumb.
- I love when you date yourself by telling me what year you graduated high school.
- I love how vulnerable and small you make me feel when I am on my knees with your cock in my mouth.
- I love the power dynamic that comes with you being 20 years my senior.
I love when you pet my head after I cum and call me a good little fucktoy…
Thank you for taking care of me.
@onelittlekingdom
Such delicious musings. You would think she’s rather fond of me. 😏
- Parents: what do you want for Christmas?
- Me: uh, a thigh gap, collar bones, flat stomach, self control… You know, the usual.
Yep. This is okay to post, but what I normally post isn’t? lol.


“Why?”
An exchange with a Follower got me thinking about something that seems to be worth talking about this evening: Doms explaining themselves, and why I think it’s a good thing ….
First of all, I need to say: I’m an explainer. (I’ve been told more than once that I sometimes overexplain, but whatever …) When I impose a rule or a protocol or a recurring task, I tend to explain the rationale behind it. To be clear, I don’t necessarily have to explain my decisions, but I find that I get a better quality dynamic (and thus, a better quality submissive) if I do. Some reasons …
By explaining the reasons behind your decisions, you are engaging your submissive’s brain in the process. You’ve given their brains something to chew on, always a good thing with the typical busy, noisy submissive brain.
You get their buy-in. A submissive can only hear “because I said so” so many times before a certain subliminal resentment starts to build. Submissives are generally hard working little rascals, but like any hard worker, they want to know that their efforts make sense and they are making a contribution.
You reinforce the fact that you are always operating from an overarching plan, not just randomly spewing out orders because some passing fancy moves you to do so. I can’t count how many times I’ve told someone “There is always a method to my madness.” It comforts the submissive brain when they understand the method.
Explaining what’s going on plays into the important “grooming” and “mentoring” aspects of a D/s relationship. Even with a seasoned submissive who has quite a bit of lived experience, an important part of your charge is to help them to flourish and rise to be the best submissive for you that they can be. Knowledge and understanding help them to do that.
Lastly, but most importantly, it shows this simple thing called “respect.” Respect for their intelligence, and respect for their willingness to submit in an informed way. You do respect your submissive, yes?
Now, I am picturing a lot of my Dom Followers getting all Domly with their bad selves and thumping their chests roaring “Because I said so is good enough!!” Calm your tits, boys (and girls). Spare me the bluster and the posturing, I’ve heard it all before and it bores me. As I preach ad nauseam, a D/s relationship is first and foremost a relationship. There are two people in the relationship. You are partners. Now, that being said, as the dynamic evolves and your submissive comes to see the wisdom inherent in your decisions (because early on you’ve explained the reasons for them), they will breathe that deep sigh of relief and fall into that warm place of trust where “Because I said so” not only won’t alarm them, it will make them feel safe and protected and loved.
Always a reblog…..
I will re-blog this til I die because this is the way to getting the best out of me.
Start slow, and explain why you want me to do as you’ve said. My brain needs to know why I’m doing something and it will reward you with growing trust. Simples!
Yes. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
